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School Dayz

Yaay,

It’s back to school time and I am ready to flow….boo. I mean not only have I had to run around to make sure that my son is in order for his first day of school but I’ve been discussing the closing chapter to my education as well. Wanna know how I’m feeling…one word, frustrated.  Back to school means back to spending money, back to getting up just a little bit early than usual during summer vacation and ultimately back to school means balancing your time with your kids’  time. 

 Last weekend when I coached my group Partnerships in Parenting, there’s a page…go see please :-)  the topic was ‘How can we, as LGBTQ parents, come from behind the shadows and be more apparent in our children’s school life?” 

In the past I can definitely say I shy-ed away from a great deal of participation in my son’s former school because I was insecure with my sexuality…I thought someone would no my ‘T’. Silly me right? more »

I Love you to Death Part 2

This article is taken from www.lgbthealth.net and HAVEN of Oakland County

According to recent studies on intimate partner violence (domestic violence), same sex partners experience intimate partner violence (IPV) at the same rate as heterosexual couples. In fact, the incidence of IPV may be greater since many of us do not report domestic violence incidents to authorities. Domestic violence is often associated with physical abuse, such as hitting or pushing but emotional and verbal abuse, intimidation and threats, and sexual violence are all acts of IPV.

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I Love you to Death

Isn’t it unfortunate when love becomes fatal. I was seating here pondering over so many stories of women being murdered by the hands of their significant other, all in the so called name of love.  How is it that one moment there’s bliss and harmony then suddenly that world turns dark and cold? Where did the road turn leading to one person standing, while the other lays cold? more »

The Awakening

Nothing prepared me for parenting,I was a barrel of nerves and emotions were reeling…however suddenly the answers come to me. more »

The Parenting Escalator

A guided tour of the ups and downs of life and motherhood

What if someone told you that you could build the perfect mall, selling products and services that would make the challenging dynamics of life and being a mother a little easier?

 What stores would you have?

Welcome to the mall of  Lesbian Parenting!

We are celebrating our grand opening with a lavish sale of fabulous free tidbits and lessons that will make your shopping experience with us not only informative but a treat that’s well worth the value. 

Come on in…a tour awaits you! 

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How to Adopt a Child if You Are Gay

How to Adopt a Child if You Are Gay

from wikiHow – The How to Manual That You Can Edit

You want to adopt a child, but you are gay. Can you still adopt? Read on to find out how a gay couple or single parent can adopt a child.

Steps

  1. Ask first and make a clear, joint decision. Ask your partner if children are wanted. If not, don’t go through with this – the decision to have children must be unanimous.
  2. Make your outlook realistic. There will be expenses (a lot) and time requirements – you will need to meet with adoption officials, children, and lawyers in order to make this happen. You’ll spend some time in court, eventually. Be sure you are aware of these things and understand that you must make your appearances at these places in order to make your dream of children come true. more »